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The goal of the Ironmen initiative is to assist men in forming meaningful long-term small groups that will help them be happier, healthier, and wealthier.

What is Ironmen?


If you feel today that you aren’t feeling as successful or excited about your life as you know you could be, then an Ironmen group will propel you to that level.

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Recent Letters to the Ironmen

Foggy Mirror

August 11th, 2017|

I saw a young man the other day eating at a restaurant. If I were his boss, although I wouldn’t fire him, I would definitely categorize him as “not” an up-and-comer. It was an embarrassing display of lack of self awareness. He was hunched over his food with the worst table presence I’ve seen [...]

What is Divorce?

August 4th, 2017|

This 4-part writing riff started with a conversation I had with a guy who had divorced his wife, which, I surmised, was due to his inability to navigate the dynamic between he and his wife so that both of their cups were filled.  In his immaturity, he didn’t see a path forward to get [...]

Improving Sexual Intimacy Part 2

July 28th, 2017|

When a couple is getting ready for bed and it’s been a handful of days since last being together, the guy is in play. Of that, there is no doubt. What is a question, however, is whether it’s going to happen or not because the woman, unquestionably, has the final say. He’s looking for [...]

Improving Sexual Intimacy

July 21st, 2017|

I received a bit of feedback on my Letter, Sex and Divorce. The essence was that the state of sexual harmony was a long-term concern. To that end, let me continue into the discussion with thoughts on how to develop the relationship away from the chasm that leads to divorce. The stereotype is justified [...]

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